In my work with couples, I draw upon my background in both attachment and family systems theories to help couples improve communication and increase intimacy as they simultaneously grow as individuals. I work with both same sex and opposite sex couples, as well as those in more alternative lifestyles. When appropriate, I incorporate the Enneagram as a way to help individuals identify their relational style and that of their partner. As a tool of communication, the Enneagram uses a non-judgmental language that provides a short-hand way of identifying strengths and challenges without resorting to blaming and criticizing.